We all use old sayings from our heritage and culture without considering their truths or origins. Yet sometimes, I hear something and think to myself, “I wonder how that old saying got started….” Do you ever wonder about this? Just for fun, let’s look into the hourglass of time and discover the true meanings of some of these familiar old sayings.
Old Sayings Are a Part of Our Heritage
Growing up in the Deep South, I understood my grandparents’ use of certain sayings. Papa would say, “I’m gonna hope him do that tomorrow.” We all knew he meant he was going to help the person tomorrow. Granny would say, “I’ve got a pawn of cornbread in the oven.” We knew a small pan of cornbread was cooking.
Some of the old sayings we use or are familiar with go back over 300 years! That’s as far as I could trace their use, so I’m sure some of them will go back even further.
I’m always interested in people’s stories and customs. As you know from our Voices of Heritage series, I enjoy sharing and learning from the past to enrich the future. Reflecting on the past to make a brighter future is about being positively thoughtful.
Fences should be horse-high, bull-strong, and pig-tight
Having broken down fences or livestock on the loose was a bad reflection on a farmer. Not only did it indicate he was lazy or incapable of maintaining his farm, but also of looking after his livestock.
In some areas of the old country, if your livestock damaged someone’s property, they could claim it as their own.
The idea was to keep the fences high enough that a horse couldn’t jump over them, strong enough that a bull couldn’t bust them down, and tight enough that pigs couldn’t push through them.
It’s interesting to me that this saying originated at a time when waddle fences were widely used for livestock management.
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Shake the hand before you plow the field
I guess being shafted on the job has been around for a long time. This old saying indicates it’s best to agree upon a price for the job and get a down payment beforehand if at all possible.
It also went for the person hiring the work too. It was just as important for them to have an agreed-upon price before the work was done so they were protected as well.
Let a sleeping dog lie
Don’t cause trouble for yourself by stirring up someone or a situation that isn’t causing you problems at the moment. If your enemy or a certain circumstance is quiet, let it alone.
This is in accordance with the Bible verse Proverbs 26:17: “He that passeth by, and meddleth with strife belonging not to him, is like one that taketh a dog by the ears.”
Life is simpler when you plow around the stump
Large stumps were difficult to remove when clearing land by hand. Farmers would often plow around them to finish the bigger job of planting crops. Then, as time allowed, they’d come back and work on removing the stump.
This is used in life to recognize that there are some things we must let go of and not waste time and energy on. As you grow in experience and wisdom, you can return to the problem or situation and deal with it effectively.
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Don’t do a rain dance if you don’t see clouds
I used to tell my boys something similar when they were growing up, “Say what you mean and mean what you say.” Again, I’m reminded of a Bible verse, Proverbs 25:14, “Whoso boasteth himself of a false gift is like clouds and wind without rain.”
Others will know you by your actions; don’t promise what you can’t deliver.
A stitch in time saves nine
If something needs repairing, fix it as soon as you see it. Don’t wait until the damage worsens beyond repair.
Some say this old saying originated with ships that used sails. Even the smallest hole was repaired as soon as it was seen to prevent further damage to the sail, which could mean saving the lives of the men on board.
It is also said to come from tailor shops in old England. Clothes were repaired as soon as tears were found to prevent the loss of the whole garment. There weren’t clothing stores on every corner nor funds readily available to replace the garment at will.
If you’re late with one chore, you’ll be late in a lot more
My Papa said a similar thing when I was growing up. He hated being late for anything. We were often 2 hours early for church.
With the unexpected happening all the time on a homestead, it’s easier to adapt throughout the day if the necessary morning chores are done on time. I’ve learned that if I let the chickens out late, then I’m late getting to the barn, which means I’m late milking, which means I’m late…
Never look a gift horse in the mouth
I was surprised to learn that this meant not accepting a gift without questioning it. I always thought it meant being thankful no matter where it comes from.
Its original use meant to question why someone was giving you something without a reason. This thought was based on the person returning later expecting you to do something for them in return for the gift. There was the possibility it would be something you wouldn’t want to do but would feel obligated to since you received a gift from them.
Another old meaning of this saying came from my husband’s family. If someone gives you something, don’t look too closely at it or question it; just receive it with gratitude.
His great-grandfather said it’s like when a man buys a horse that looks good on the outside, but then he checks his teeth and finds it not to be what it was supposed to be. If you look too closely at the gift horse, you may change your opinions of the gift and the giver.
Above all else, farming is a life of hope
I wholeheartedly agree with this statement. Crops fail, but we plant again in hope. Animals die, but we breed or purchase again in hope. Fences break down, but we repair them in hope. We could go on and on about all that could and often does go wrong on a homestead, yet we go on…in hope.
A tottering fence without means trouble in the house
The condition of one’s farm and home was considered a reflection of the inward person and condition of the family. If fences were falling down, then others felt sure there was something wrong with the whole home. This old saying was originally used to indicate marital trouble: A man who doesn’t love his wife or home will not take care of things.
Make Hay While the Sun Shines
It’s akin to the famous John Wayne saying, “You’re burin’ daylight,” which is one of my favorites.
This one is unusual because it was a literal saying from Old England. Those who put up hay know you only cut, rack, stack, and bail hay when it’s sunny and the hay is dry. If rain is in the forecast, farmers rush to get the job done before the hay gets wet and is ruined.
It’s come to mean about the same thing as, “Don’t put off until tomorrow what you can do today.”
Don’t count your chickens before they hatch
One of Ma Ingalls’ favorite sayings. Isn’t it interesting how we all know who she is? She lived her life without ever considering that people would recognize her name and think of her a hundred years later.
Anyway, this saying is pretty self-explanatory. Don’t count a thing as so until it is done.
Less said, sooner mended
Another of Ma Ingalls’ old sayings is that if you find yourself in a messy situation, you can cause yourself more heartache and harm if you keep it stirred up. Let it alone, and it will die a natural death.
A month of Sundays
In the old days, there were many religious rules about what could and could not be done on Sunday. This made the day seem long, especially for children. So, of course, this phrase is used to indicate a long, slow period of time.
By hook or by crook
This old saying is said to come from a Medieval law stating peasants could use branches of any tree for firewood with one condition. They had to be able to reach the branch using a shepherd’s crook or a billhook. Using one or both of these tools, they could get wood for heating and cooking.
In our day, it’s come to mean something will be done one way or another.
Nothing falls into the mouth of a sleeping fox
The fox is a sneaky creature and has to work for his food. This goes together with another of the old sayings, “The sleeping fox will catch no chicken.”
These two simply mean a person who doesn’t work doesn’t eat. A lesson many in our society should learn from. No, I don’t mean those who can’t work to provide; I mean those who can and won’t.
Don’t let the cat out of the bag
There’s an interesting story to this saying. Back then, piglets sold in open markets were placed in burlap bags to keep them from getting away. Crooked merchants would put large cats in the bags instead of piglets.
If the buyer didn’t check the bag before he left the merchant, he was stuck holding the bag, another old saying, and was without recourse. He could not prove he didn’t swap them once he left the market.
A shrewd buyer would open the bag to look before he paid the merchant and would “let the cat out of the bag.” Today, it means to keep a secret.
Don’t put all your eggs in one basket
This old saying has a simple yet profound meaning. Applied to many areas of life, it simply means diversifying yourself, your time, energy, and money.
Learn everything you can, take care of your whole being, invest yourself in relationships, don’t overextend your resources, and don’t hyper-focus on any one money-making adventure.
Won’t Hit a Lick at a Snake
A truly Southern saying among old farmer sayings. It means someone is so lazy they wouldn’t try to hit a snake away with a stick.
She’s as Mad as a Cow Having a Calf With Horns
In old farmer sayings, this would mean the person was extremely angry about something and was very physical in expressing it.
That Dog Won’t Hunt
This would be considered the polite way of saying someone is lying. It stems from the Deep South, where coon hunting dogs were, and in some areas still are, prized. If a dog trailed a rabbit instead of a coon, it was said to be “a lyin’ dog”. If it was a pattern, it was considered no good for hunting or good for nothin’ liar.
You look like you’ve been rode hard and put up wet
Any horseman knows that riding a horse too hard can damage it. A horse that’s been allowed to run so hard it becomes lathered must be cooled down slowly, brushed, and dried before being put in a stall to rest. Not doing so could result in the death of the horse and, in the least, could cause pneumonia.
So, a person who looks run down, exhausted, or even sick may be said to look like this kind of horse.
Don’t Put the Cart Before the Horse
I’m sure we’re all familiar with this one. It simply means not getting ahead of yourself in any circumstance but doing things in the proper order.
Put a Sock in it
This is another one of those old sayings that is used in many different ways. One member of TFL Community said his grandmother used this saying in reference to her gramophone. It had no volume control, so she would tell them to put a sock in it to turn down the volume of the speaker’s horn.
Its general use is a polite way of saying shut up or stop speaking.
You couldn’t stir them with a stick
In the Deep South, we use this saying in reference to fire ants because their mounds are numerous, and the ant population is innumerable. It simply means there was a lot of something, often too many to count.
She’s Like an Old Settin’ Hen
If you’ve kept chickens at all, you know when a hen sets hard, she is easily flustered and generally nasty. It also means upset easily.
In A Coon’s Age
This is a funny one originating in the Deep South. It’s a reference to something being a long period of time, i.e., I haven’t been there in a coon’s age. Raccoons live a long time, as any farmer in the South can tell you!
The Early Bird Catches the Worm
This old saying emphasizes the value of being proactive and industrious. In farming, getting up early allows one to start chores and work before the heat of the day sets in, increasing productivity. Similarly, those who act promptly and seize opportunities are more likely to succeed.
One Bad Apple Spoils the Whole Barrel
This is a familiar one in old sayings that warns about the contagious nature of negativity or bad influences. In farming, a rotten apple can release gases that cause nearby apples to spoil faster. Similarly, one negative or toxic individual can harm a group in social or professional settings. It underscores the importance of surrounding oneself with positive influences.
Drunk as Cooter Brown
This expression describes someone who is heavily intoxicated. Its origins are a bit murky, but it’s often associated with either a figure from the American Civil War or a character from Southern folklore known for his love of spirits.
Some say Cooter Brown was a man who wanted to avoid being drafted into the military during the Civil War, so he stayed drunk to make himself unfit for service. Another theory suggests he was a fictional character known for his perpetual state of inebriation.
Growing up with the surname Brown, I always thought the grown-ups were talking about a drunk old relative. As a child, I imagined Great Uncle Cooter stumbling through life with a perpetual grin and a flask in hand. It wasn’t until I was older that I realized the truth behind the jests and jibes. It’s one of those old sayings that I laugh at myself about.
Jim Dandy
Jim Dandy is one of those old sayings that just roll off the tongue, right? Now, when you hear someone say “Jim Dandy,” they’re talking about something truly outstanding, top-notch, or just plain excellent.
The history behind this saying goes back to the 19th century in the good ol’ U.S. of A. It’s believed to have originated in African American culture, where it was used to describe exceptional things or people. Now, the exact story behind the name “Jim Dandy” is a bit fuzzy, but it’s likely a blend of the common name “Jim” and the word “dandy,” which back then meant something fashionable or top-of-the-line.
As time passed, this saying found its way into everyday American language, becoming a go-to phrase for expressing admiration or approval. Whether praising a job well done or marveling at something truly remarkable, “Jim Dandy” captures that sense of excellence and awe.
So, the next time you come across something truly exceptional, don’t hesitate to give it a nod and say, “Now, that’s a Jim Dandy!” It’s timeless among old sayings and celebrates the best of the best.
An Empty Wagon Rattles the Most
That’s one of those old sayings that hits close to home, right? It’s all about making noise when there’s nothing to show for it. See, when a wagon’s loaded with goods, it moves along quietly, doing its job without a fuss. But take away the cargo, and suddenly, every bump, every jostle, it’s like the wagon’s shouting, “Look at me! I’m here!”
It’s a reminder, plain and simple that sometimes, the loudest ones in the room aren’t necessarily the most substantial. Just because someone’s making a racket doesn’t mean they’ve got something worthwhile to say. The ones who carry their load quietly, without all the fuss, often have the most to offer.
It’s An Ill Wind That Blows Nobody Any Good
This old saying is about finding the bright side even when things aren’t going your way.
You see, life is full of twists and turns, and sometimes, we find ourselves facing tough times or setbacks. But here’s the kicker—even in the darkest clouds, there’s often a silver lining waiting to be discovered. It’s about looking past the gloom and finding those little rays of sunshine, those hidden opportunities for growth and learning.
It’s a reminder to keep your chin up, keep pushing forward, and keep your eyes peeled for those unexpected blessings in disguise.
Fine Words Butter No Parsnips
Here’s another gem of wisdom among old sayings. You see, in this fast-paced world, there are a lot of talkers out there—folks who can spin a tale or charm the socks off anyone they meet. But here’s the thing: all the fancy words in the world won’t get the job done when it comes down to brass tacks. It’s like trying to butter your parsnips with sweet talk—nice, but it won’t fill your belly.
This saying reminds us that actions speak louder than words. Sure, it’s great to be able to talk the talk, but what really counts is walking the walk. It’s a gentle nudge to focus on substance over style, to prioritize action and results over empty rhetoric.
He Who Pays The Piper Calls The Tune
When someone is footing the bill, whether for a project, a gathering, or any other occasion, they call the shots. It’s like they hold the reins, and everyone else has to fall in line.
This saying illuminates the sway that money holds. It reminds us that when someone is the one paying, they’ve earned a say in how things are run and where the funds flow. It’s a blunt reminder that whoever holds the purse strings holds the power when it comes to money.
If You’re Going to Dance, You Have to Pay the Fiddler
Another of the old sayings from the beloved Ma Ingalls, who gave sage advice to her daughter Laura during a pivotal time. As Laura faced the news of her expectancy with Rose, Ma Ingalls shared this sentiment with her.
In the gentle and practical manner that Ma was known for, she reminded Laura of the fundamental principle that actions have consequences. If you choose to partake in an activity or enjoy a pleasure, you must also accept the responsibility or consequences that come with it.
Metaphorically, this saying emphasizes the importance of accountability and facing the results of one’s actions. Whether it’s a literal payment or the repercussions of a decision, there’s a cost associated with every choice made. It encourages prudence and mindfulness in decision-making, reminding us that pleasure often comes with its own set of obligations. So, before indulging in any endeavor, consider the price to be paid, for in life’s dance, the fiddler always awaits their due.
Water Ain’t Gonna Clear Up Until You Get The Pigs Out Of The Creek
At its core, this saying is all about addressing the root cause of a problem. Imagine a creek muddied by pigs wading in it. No matter how much you wait or hope for the water to clear, it won’t happen until you deal with the real issue – the pigs in the water.
This old saying can be applied to many aspects of life. It teaches us the importance of direct action and confronting issues head-on. It reminds us that sometimes the solutions to our problems are as straightforward as removing the pigs from the creek.
Wrap Up
In our quest to understand the meanings behind these old sayings, we delve into the depths of our collective history, seeking the threads that connect us to our ancestors and the wisdom they imparted.
With each saying we explore, we uncover layers of meaning that speak to the trials, triumphs, and timeless truths of the human experience. Some reflect practical advice gleaned from generations of hard-earned lessons. Others echo the values and beliefs that have shaped our cultures and societies over centuries.
Yet, beyond their surface meanings, these old sayings carry with them a sense of nostalgia and familiarity woven into the fabric of our everyday lives. They remind us of our roots, grounding us in our heritage even as we navigate the complexities of modernity.
As we unravel the stories behind these sayings, we gain insight into our past and find guidance for the present and future. They offer us pearls of wisdom to treasure, guiding us through life’s challenges and illuminating the path ahead.
How well did you do? Did you know the origins or meanings of these old farmer sayings? Can you share other old sayings with us in the comments below?
Linda says
My mother was a professional musician in the 1920s, and if you were not at the train station when the train left, you would be left behind, so she was always at the station with plenty of time to spare. If someone was at the station earlier than she was, her comment was, “Well, aren’t you a Johnny at the rat hole.” I have no idea of the origins of that saying, but I still use it and receive curious responses.
Rhonda says
That’s a great story, Linda. She sounds like she was a go-getter! Thanks for sharing your memories and saying with us.
Lolita Balboa says
I have this saying:
Don’t kill the goose that lays the golden egg(meaning dont abuse your employer asking heaven and earth which is beyond their control which may lead them to big loses or bunkcraptcy.
Rhonda says
Thanks for sharing this one with us, Lolita.
Vicki Husted says
I’ve been enjoying your newsletters and site for a few years now, but these old sayings are possibly my favorite! At age 77, I recognized almost all of them. Read all the comments, too, and unfortunately can’t add any that haven’t already been mentioned. Thanks for all you do!
Rhonda says
We’re so glad you are a part of our Community, Vicki. Thank your for allowing us to be a part of your journey. This post was a fun one to write. It’s been on TFL for years but we’ve just updated it and it seems to be a hit. We appreciate all of your support and encouragement!
Donna says
When talking about someone who looked tired, sick or in rough shape, my mother would say “She/he is homelier than a hedge fence”. My parents were farmers from northern Vermont and they said most of these at one time or another. Thanks for this article!
Rhonda says
Thanks for sharing Donna! That’s a new one for me. I appreciate you sharing it with us.
Harley says
A neighbor I had one time Get out of way I got the trotts
Kathy says
When something or someone was not pleasant to look at, my mom would say, “It’s as ugly as homemade sin.” No idea the lore behind it. But evidently homemade sin is uglier than store bought?
Rhonda says
Hi Kathy, I’ve heard that one too and wondered the same thing you did. Thanks for sharing and for the chuckle!
Doug Elley says
Hmmm…..shit fire & save the matches!
Karen Nylec says
Thanks I enjoyed remembering so many of the sayings. I remember, that is how the cow ate the cabbage and a neighbor used to say you are as handy a pocket on a shirt.
Rhonda says
Hi Karen, I’m so happy that you enjoyed Old Sayings. My great-grandfather had a game he played “Let me show you how the horse ate the pumpkin (or cabbage)” and he’d tickle us. I like the pocket on shirt saying! Thanks for sharing with us.
Heather says
Should an individual be standing around when their assistance is obviously required, you may want to comment “well you are as handy as pockets in your underwear”.
Rhonda says
That’s a good one, Heather, Thanks for sharing it with us!
william Custer smith says
If you will do for a few years what others will not do. You can do for the rest of your life what others can not do.
Marlene Verhage says
Gramma sayings. Ass like a tame bee. Thought you died and the pigs ate you. 😮meaning haven’t heard from you in long time. Excuse the grunt the pig feels better when a bricked or passed gas. lol.
Paula says
wow! thanks for this. brought back some forgotten food memories….some of these sayings I haven’t heard in yeeeears and used them myself to my child….
over the years I’ve heard stuff like this all the time and some of the original sayings did have some dark meanings behind them but over the years the meanings have changed for people thankfully…
Rhonda says
Thank you, Paula, for sharing with me! We’re so glad to have you as a part of TFL Community.
Catherine Collins says
I’m going to get shed of it, meaning to get rid of.
Della says
My dad and his family(on both sides) came from the southwest…Oklahoma through Texas to finally settle in Arizona in 1903. Of course, they were from the last of the cowboy generation. Along the way there were phrases they used, that to this day baffle me. I’ve looked for books on old time cowboy phrases and your site has come the closest.
1. Go get something out of the “jockey box”……the glove box in a car!
2. Why did you do the? “Cat fur to make kitten britches with”. Guess it was “because”.
3. How are you doin’? “About two in a hill”. When the farmers planted corn they would put three kernels of corn in a hill and if two came up they were fine!
4. He would say “the he/she was 6 axe handles wide”. Guess he thought they were too heavy/large?
5. Whole hog or no hog at all
6. “I reckon”
Rhonda says
How awesome! Thank you for sharing your story and sayings with us.
Shirley says
You are preaching to the choir
People who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones
My grandpa used to say of someone that didn’t like to work as “they are worthless than tits on a bore”
Suz says
My mother use to say, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?” She meant don’t give yourself away to any man who doesn’t love you enough to wait for sex until you’re married.
And as an aside to that (not really an old saying) she’d also say “Keep your skirts down MaryAnn!”
Rhonda says
Thank you so much for sharing your memories with us!
Audrey says
Keep your shirt on meant just wait.
Got your ears lowered described you after a haircut.
So soon old; so late smart.
Madder than a wet hen meant very angry. I guess chickens don’t like to get wet.
Cuter than a bug’s ear or bunny’s ear was a good thing to be called as a kid.
Steve says
I’ve actually kept a list of old sayings from my Grandparents and was delighted when I stumbled across your site.
My Gram used to say ” She’s so cheap she wouldn’t pay a nickel to see Christ ride a bicycle”
Papa would say ” there were three men in a boat and the oars leaked” Never could figure that one out!
or when he would take a shot of whiskey he would say ” Here’s to looking up your old address” this was a mystery also. As a kid I loved spending hours with Gram & Papa listening to stories of the old days in Chicago. I still use a lot of these sayings… people thing I’m crazy! Ha
Rhonda says
Those are some awsome ones Steve! Thanks so much for sharing them with us. They seem like they are culturally or regional in their origins. “Three men in a boat and the oars leaked” I also heard my grandfather say meaning someone didn’t have any common sense to get the job done. Now the whiskey one, that’s a puzzler! I’ll let you know if I figure it out.
David W says
Have you heard,… busier than a one armed paper hanger in a high wind!…
Or
… Scar up and hair over…means get well
… nervous as a long tailed cat in a doom full of rockin chairs…
Or in reply to how are you,… fair to middlin’ meaning like a grade of cotton not the best not the worse!
Thanks for all the ones you put up, i enjoyed them
Rhonda says
Great ones David, I should have thought of those I even use the cats and rocking chair saying and say fair to middlin’ a lot! Thanks for sharing with us!
Virginia Lloyd says
Bought wit is the best wit, if you don’t pay too dear for it.
Not sure I remember it correctly. Any one know this?
Was used in context of if you messed up without listening to good advice, how much did it cost you, losing something etc.
Belinda says
My mom would say many old sayings; “About out of soap grease” meaning you’ve run out of steam or you’re getting really tired, “I’m in good shape for the shape I’m in”, “he don’t have two cents to rub together” meaning, of course, that he’s not wealthy, “it’s too late to shut the barn door after the horse has got out”, in the old days I believe that referred to pre-marital pregnancy. There are so many more but I’ll stop there. I just found your website and I’m going to return many times I’m sure. Thanks for the trip down memory lane.
Rhonda says
Hi Belinda, Thank you for sharing your mother’s old sayings witih us. We’re so glad you found us and are now a part of TFL Community! We’re here to help and encourage you on your journey.
Victoria says
My Grandpa told me that my hair looked like a loose bale of hay. This was in the 1960’s when backcombed bouffant hairdos were in style!
Rhonda says
Grandpas say the funniest things! Thanks for sharing with us,Victoria.
Barb says
If something was worthless, my father used to say it ain’t worth a plugged nickel. If we were too rambunctious, he would say: “Who put a quarter in your nickel slot? ” If you looked really ratty he would say you looked like you had been pulled through a knot hole. If someone wasn’t honest, he would say they were as crooked as a dog’s leg. If someone was screaming, he would say they were squealing like a stuck pig. And he made this one his motto: If you’re not early, you’re late.
Rhonda says
Nice ones, Thanks for sharing with us Barb.
Brenda says
My grand mothers always ask if we were going to get a new frock for Easter or Christmas .
Meaning a new dress.
Nellie says
my mom used to say she was going up the road a piece to see Ole Haddicall.
She was called a young whippersnapper.
Richard Lewis says
my farther away said to someone who cut him off in the car 🚗, why don’t you go back to your own country where you belong. live in NH they mostly in Maine. found out that during WW2 there were signs all along the main/NH border sayings “you are now leaving the United States”. was on a back road and one was still up. It could mean to go back home.
Shantell J says
GROWING UP BACK THEN AS A CHILD MY GRANDMOTHER WITCH IS MY DAD MOTHER USED TO ALWAYS SAY IF YALL HUNGRY GO MAKE A SAMMITCH AND WE BREAK OUT LAUGHING AND SAY GRANDMA NOT SAMMITCH IT’S SANDWICH SHE SAY DON’T CORRECT HER I NO HOW TO SAY SAMMITCH AND CROSS THE STRAIGHT WITCH IS STREET SHE COULDN’T GET HER (S) TOGETHER ( I WISH I COULD HERE HER SAY THOSE S’s AGAIN
Steve says
I remember one cold winter day our Model A Ford wouldn’t start. My mother said “It’s dead as a doornail”. She also used to refer to those who went on ad nauseum about something inconsequential “An empty wagon rattles the most”.
Rhonda says
Those are great, Steve. Thanks for sharing them with us!
Lorrie says
Daddy would say there’s more than one way to skin a cat, than to choke it on buttermilk.
Meaning more ways to do something.
Tiffanie says
My Dad used to say “There’s more than one way to skin a cat than sticking its head in a vice and pulling on its tail. Meaning there’s always more than one way to do something.
Kathy says
W0w! one of my mom’s favorites &one as well but neither of us used the 2nd part abt the tail & vice
Dorinda says
I’ve always heard “Don’t throw the baby out with the bath water.”
In old days, they’d fill up the tub and take turns taking a bath. I believe it was father 1st, mother 2nd, then the kids and lastly the baby. By then the water was so dirty, you couldn’t see what was in it. Hence, make sure you take the baby out before you throw out the bath water.
Anna says
“Not my monkey. Not my circus. ” I’m not getting involved.
Linnea says
One favorite saying of my grandmother was “I’ll tell him how the hog ate the cabbage” or “don’t make me tell you how the hog ate the cabbage.” generally, it meant to tell the truth or you don’t know what you are talking about. A few times it meant “for pity sakes stop.”
Wallace Browning says
Guess I’m “a day late and a dollar short”.
Marsha Lyon says
I heard in North Arkansas that someone
was big enough to go bear hunting with
a switch and give the bear the switch.
Also heard I haven’t seen you in so long
you must be fixing to get married,
Rhonda says
Those are good ones, Marsha. Thanks for sharing with us!
Dolores says
Should have killed the chicken don’t make no soup
Dolores says
I’ve heard this from a friend at work. Didn’t kill the chicken don’t make no
Soup.
Dixie says
A saying of my Mom and Grandma when someone was sad or tired…”looks like your crupper is dragin'”
Rhonda says
That’s a new on on me, Dixie. Thanks for sharing with us.
John says
That woman would give a woodpecker a headache
Rhonda says
Now that’s a good one! Thanks for sharing with us.
Lynn says
My Mom would tell me” You can give an asprin a headache” lol oh and not so nice, go play in the middle of the street! hmmm, we useto play in the street anyway playing kickball or Mother may I…
Linda says
That’s the funniest yet!
Shirley says
Here’s one my Grandmother use to say
“ if you throw out your trash who will pick it up”
Meaning if you don’t help family or you fellowman when they are in need even if they don’t deserve it then who will?
Rhonda says
Well! That’s a new one on me. Thanks so much for sharing, Shirley.
Mary Ann says
My favorite saying of long ago was” I don’t have a dog in the fight” basically it was to affirm the fact that you weren’t involved with the topic.
Rhonda says
Good one, Mary Ann, thanks for sharing it with us!
Gayle Edwards says
It’s colder than a well diggers ass in December.
My dad said that.
Rhonda says
Thanks Gayle for sharing. That is an oldie!
Brenda says
My Dad also said this.
Brandie Bishop says
My granny passed this past December at the age of 93…I learned a lot from that lady! One of my favorite things she would say was “he ain’t worth killing” I use it when necessary lol
Rhonda says
Thanks Brandie for sharing with us. How blessed you were to have your Granny so long. Sounds like she was a real blessing to you.
Kathy says
My grandmother would frequently say “Don’t know enough to fill a thimble” when referring to someone who had little or no knowledge of something that was being discussed.
My father, when angered by another’s arrogance, would always say that he wished he “could buy them for what they’re worth, and sell them for what they thought they’re worth.
My husband’s grandfather who was a farmer born in 1909, would respond when pleased by something by saying he was “Happier than an old boar hog in a cool pool of mud”.
Rhonda says
Kathy, Those are all fantastic! Thanks for sharing with us and for being a part of TFL Community.
Mary C Bailey says
My mother, a Home Economics teacher, would repeat what she had been taught as a child , “ A long thread is a sign of a lazy seamstress “
One would think that you could save time by threading a needle fewer times and using a longer thread. In reality, you risk tangling the long thread and have no choice than to start over with a newly threaded needle.
Rhonda says
Mary, thank you for sharing with us. As a lazy seamstress, I can say she is right. I do get knots in my thread when I dont use a short piece!
Big Al says
I used to hear this when I was small when it was time to straighten up my room. That is a bigger mess than chickens during Pokeberry season.
Rhonda says
That’s a funny one and one I totally get. Thanks for sharing with us.
Calvin Brown says
The one I’ve heard many times, especially in business today is, “Let’s not get the cart before the horse”. Meaning lets not do things backwards or in the wrong order.
Rhonda says
Absolutely, a good one. Thanks for reminding us.
Steve Barrett says
The one about a stump reminded me of a couple things. I remember my Dad saying you could take care of a stump by drilling holes in it and soaking it with a mixture of (I think) kerosene and saltpeter. He said once it was saturated, a match would pretty much take care of it.
I’m also minded of another saying of my Dad’s, “Go run up a stump”, by which I took to mean he wanted me somewhere else.
On a different note, I recently stumbled across a meaning for the saying “Put a sock in it”. I always thought it meant to be quiet but, apparently, it originally referenced my Grandmother’s phonograph with the large speaker horn. There was no volume control, hence this saying.
Thank you for sharing these olde sayings. They are much enjoyed.
Rhonda says
Steve, Thank you for taking the time to share your sayings and stories with us. It’s always great to hear from TFL Community and thank you for being a part of it.
Cynthia Wilson says
My mom used to say, ‘I feel like I was sent for and couldn’t come’ or ‘I look like I was dragged through a hedge backwards’.
Rhonda says
Cynthia, Thanks for sharing your mom’s sayings with us, those are good ones.
Noreen says
My mom used to say “If wishes were horses then beggars would ride!”
Rhonda says
That’s funny, Noreen, thanks for sharing.
Libby Smith says
“Don’t buy a pig in a poke.” I wonder if this saying has its origins with letting the cat out of the bag. It made me think if you don’t examine the bag first you may not be buying what you think you’re buying.
“You couldn’t stir them with a stick.” A crowd was very large and difficult to walk through.
“talking out of school” means you’re discussing something that you’re not supposed to talk about.
“like an ole settin’ hen” means someone is acting cross and touchy.
Rhonda says
Great saysing Libby! Thanks for sharing with us.
Christina kinsey says
l am from.the zUk and I recognise several.of these sayings .A probably. ore modern one l.like is describing an impossible task as being like herding cats
Anyone who is owned by a cat will understand
Rhonda says
Thanks, Christina, for sharing with us!
Brenda says
use your head to save your feet
also
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Rhonda says
Brenda, that’s a new one on me. Thanks for sharing!
Simon says
Would have liked to have a number of them in a book form so as to visit the book any time. Nowadays we are having a such on computers not on physical book.
Phyllis Adams says
If the creek don’t rise
Rhonda says
Phyllis, That’s a good one. Thanks for sharing.
Wanda says
I’ve heard this one as, “If the good Lord’s willing and the creek don’t rise.”
I always thought of the creek not rising as the water not getting out of the creek bed. Recently a man told me it meant the Creek Indians.
Rhonda says
Wanda, I’ve also heard it that way. I’ve learned there is often more than one meaning to old sayings. Often it depends on the time, the locale, and/or the people. Thanks for sharing with us.
Cheryl says
It means that you will be there unless something major prevents it, such as the creek is too deep to ford or there is a huge disaster.
Bernice Emmons says
I always thought that meant creek as in stream or water. Later I was told it referred to the Creek Indians on a war path.
Diane says
My favorite Aunt Roxie I ain’t seen you in a coons age of course referring to how long a raccoon lives Too long for most southern farmers
Rhonda says
Diane, Since I’m from the Deep South of Mississippi, I cannot believe I missed that one! Great job reminding us. Thanks for sharing and being a part of TFL Community.
Chelsea says
I, too, am from Deep South Mississippi! I have just found your web site today. Having fun looking around.
Rhonda says
Hi Chelsea! I’m so excited you found us! We hope you find everything you’re looking for. If you have a question or need something you can’t find, let me know and we’ll find it together. Welcome!
Melinda Stowers says
He/she could blow up an onion sack and not say a single thing. Someone who talks a bunch of nonsense.
He/she could talk the ears off a jack rabbit.
He/she could worry the horns off a billygoat.
Rhonda says
Melinda, Thank you so much for sharing these old sayings. Good ones all!
Jacqueline says
another one he/she could talk the hine leg aff a donkey
in other words doesn’t shut up
Rhonda says
LOL! That’s a good one. I’ve also heard it “talk the horns off a billy goat.”
Kelly Stoudenmire says
Sweep off your own back porch before you try n sweep mine!
This meant basically look at ur own issues b4 dealing with mine!
Rhonda says
Kelly, that’s a good one. It came from the Bible where the Lord Jesus Christ tells us to remove the beam from our own eye before we try to take the speck from our neighbor’s eye. Thanks for sharing with us!
Terry says
One of my favorites: We make plans and G-d laughs.
Tom Horton says
If you were a sailor and you did something wrong you were punished by the cat’o’ nine tails, a whip that was stored in a bag. It was said by those around him “you let the cat out of the bag”
What you were describing was don’t by a pig in a poke
Rhonda says
Tom, I have discovered there are many stories and histories behind these sayings. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this one.
Lorraine says
I like the old saying, “don’t teach your grandmother how to suck eggs”
Rhonda says
Thanks for sharing with us. I’m not familiar with that one. Can you tell me what it means?
Nic Denham says
Means , she / someone , already knows and does this so don’t tell them how to do it .
Rhonda says
Thanks for sharing it with me.
Charles Chandler says
One of my grandma’s was…” Well I ain’t seen hide nor hair of him”
Brenda says
I heard a similar one, “Man proposes and God disposes”
Rhonda says
I’ve heard similar versions but not this one. I love it. Thanks for sharing it with us.
Charles C. says
One of my grandma’s sayings I remember as kid was…” Well I ain’t seen hide nor hair of him.
Rhonda says
Yes, that’s a good one! Thanks for sharing.
Kim says
My family always said “even a blind sow sometimes gets an ear of corn” an “can’t make a silk purse out of a sows ear.
Rhonda says
Oh Kim, those are both great ones! I should have thought to add those. Thank you so much for adding them to the comments and for being part of TFL Community!
anne kimberley says
my dad used to say after I had asked a question ‘ I MAY BE TALKING WITHOUT MY BOOK BUT……… ‘
Rhonda says
Anne, I love it! I’m going to remember that one and use it with our grandchildren. Thanks for sharing!
Peggy says
When corn is in season, when sitting down at table mom used to say, when she was a kid grandpa would say it’s time for spring cleaning referring to it coming out the other end.
Rhonda says
Peggy, That’s one I’ve certainly never heard before but it does make sense! Thank you for sharing it with us and for being a part of TFL Community.
Jackie says
loved the origins of the above, one we use in the UK is flown the coup! (often when someone has run off, usually from the law!!)
Rhonda says
Oh Jackie, That’s a good one! We say that over here to mean the same thing. I’m sure we learned it from the UK. Thanks for sharing!
Angela says
I’ve used ‘I don’t want to talk out of church”. It’s helped me get out of a conversation or two
Rhonda says
That’s a good one!
don stanley says
What is an “Elderberry Flush”? An old saying from my Grandmother.
Lady Locust says
I’ve not heard that but having dealt with elderberries, I would guess it is referring to the effect on the stomach of consuming too much “rich fruit” – trying to be polite.